Scary finances

Folks, adoption is expensive. Not just expensive, but we could buy a really nice car for what we are spending on this adoption. Every country, including the US, has different fees and they all add up to tens of thousands of dollars. That being said, we are hardcore fundraising starting NOW. We racked up over $4,000 in scarf sales through my Etsy shop last year (visit the shop here) and will be attempting to raise more funds through the store this upcoming fall. We will be brainstorming more fundraising opportunities, such as designing T shirts to sell, BBQ/pancake/spaghetti dinners, adoption yard sales, etc and we are also going on a relatively tight budget in case we don’t reach our fundraising goal by the time we fly to Ethiopia. We know the enormous cost of an adoption and while we believe God can move mountains and 100% fund this adoption through other means, we are willing to sacrifice a good amount of our savings to bring this child home. The one good thing about being on a waiting list for years for a referral for our particular country is that we have all that time to raise funds.

We have also been approved for a matching grant through The Summit’s Orphan Care Ministry. If we raise at least $2,000 through online/check donations via Lifesong, our church will match it. WE NEED YOUR HELP TO DO THIS. Lifesong is an organization that exists to help adoptive families fund their adoption through grants and interest-free loans. Here is how to give to our matching grant fund:

 PLEASE NOTE THE SUPER EASY “DONATE NOW” BUTTON VIA PAYPAL AT THE TOP OF THE BLOG

GIVE BY CHECK: 

Please make check payable to Lifesong for Orphans

**In the memo please note your gift preference with our family number #4591 and Shrader family.**

(if you don’t put the memo, we may not get your donation)

Please mail checks to:

Lifesong for Orphans

PO Box 40

Gridley, IL 61744

GIVE ONLINE:

Go to: www.lifesongfororphans.org/give/donate

Click: Give to an adoptive family

Complete online form and fill in #4591 in Acct # and Shrader family in Family Name fields

**Please note that PayPal will charge an administrative fee (2.9% + $.30 USD per transaction). Your donation will be decreased by the amount of this fee. Individual donations $250 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $250 will gladly be sent upon request. Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization.**

Our fundraising goal date will be September 8, 2014.  However, our account remains open and donations will be accepted until our child is home or adoption is complete – whichever is later.

In an effort to be transparent through the adoption process and honest with people donating to our fund, we have included a breakdown of what we have already paid and what we owe. We have currently raised all of the money for the expenses so far from the Etsy shop and donations. Here is the breakdown:

All fees below are paid and taken care of:

Homestudy: $1500

USCIS Immigration/Fingerprints: $900

Agency application fee: $250

Agency fee upon application acceptance: $2,667

Miscellaneous fees (mailings, notarizations, homestudy fees, dossier fees): estimation around $300

TOTAL we’ve raised so far: $5, 617…which is AMAZING

All fees below are yet to come:

Agency fee at completion of home study: $2,667

Agency fee at completion of dossier: $2,667

Homestudy update fee (after birth of new baby): $800 plus costs of background checks and fingerprints

Dossier fee: $625

USCIS application fee after referral: unsure

FedEx account to send the dossier to Ethiopia:  $345

Crossings training: $200

Referral fee (1 child): $12,000 ($8,000 each additional child)

Foster care fee: $750

Airfare for two trips to Ethiopia and back (at least 4 adult round trip-maybe 1 child, 1 child one-way): $9500

Hotel accommodations (2 1 week stays): $700

Parent visas: $80

Transportation in Ethiopia: $500

Adopted child’s US Visa: $230

Food (per person): $200

TOTAL: $31, 264

I’m going to be honest here. Looking at that number almost gives me a heart attack. Adoption is definitely a God thing. The waiting is difficult, the cost is enormous and the paperwork is a bear. Being obedient to the Word means caring for the orphan. This does not mean every believer should adopt or foster. Caring for the orphan could mean helping fund an adoption, supporting adoptive families in your church/community, joining the Big Brother/Big Sister organization, being a guardian ad litum, etc. We are very blessed to have a church community that emphasizes orphan care with our Orphan Care Ministry, because we realize a lot of people go through this process alone. If you are reading this and realize you are not in a position to adopt, please consider helping to fund our adoption and/or pray for our process. It takes a village to raise a child and you can be a part of ours.

 

In Him,

The Shraders

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